Posts Tagged ‘story’

Secrets of Sublime Storytelling, Part 6

• Miscellaneous Principles and Considerations

I know: this subheading is a bit of a cop-out. But I can’t organize them precisely, as they all have more or less equal importance and they flit about in my storytelling world like quarks. Here, there, now, then, both at the same time, and whoops where’d they go?

Know Your Audience: You don’t want to tell the story of Jesus’ birth at a conference of atheists, nor would you ridicule and demean the poor boy and his Father to a group of Catholics. Who are you telling your story to? Engineers? Accountants? Fifth-graders? Metaphysical healers? I once did a master class for some staff from a non-profit social service organization. Among the eight participants were three Muslim women, each wearing hijab signifying modesty. In that group was a woman from an African country whose culture did not encourage eye contact between women and men — so she said. I was effective in my storytelling and teaching because I modified stories to be acceptable to my audience — without diluting my message and teaching. I respected them. They listened and learned.

Credibility: Another word for this is believability. We have to be authentically credible and believable as a person, in order for our story to be credible and believable — even if we’re making it up! My brother Rick and I are attorneys. (more…)

Secrets of Sublime Storytelling, Part 5

• Use Your Whole Instrument

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You’ve got to use your whole storytelling instrument to enchant people. There are six parts to your instrument: mind, verbal, vocal, visual, shakti, silence. You can also use props, but I’m not going to speak about them here.

Mind: This is the part of your instrument you use to create stories. So, fling it open, and let your mind connect to your spirit, to the cosmos, to every living thing, to imagination, to intuition, to uncontrollable forces of nature. Kick taboos out of your mind. Raise the flag of freedom. Let your mind go where no one has ever gone. Be brave and bold, oh mind, and mighty forces shall aid you. Be creative and playful, be serious and sincere. If your mind is the palette you’ll use to paint your story, make sure you’ve got hundreds of colors, not just two or three.

Verbal: This refers to the words we use. Take care with your word choices and syntax, the way you string your words together. Word choice is not a place to show off; word choice should favor the listener’s easy comprehension, and the words should be delivery devices for delight of the senses and mind: musical, rhythmic, colorful, scented, sounding of fury and silence. Don’t speak over or under their heads if you can help it. Watch out for technical and other terms that might mean something to you, but not to your audience. Use words to create sensory-rich pictures and don’t shy away from emotive words. I prefer to use concrete words over abstract words. I favor the specific over the general, the precise over the vague, and clarity over confusion. I endeavor to have these preference manifest in my word choices and syntax. But that’s just me. Syntax: the words you use and how you string them together. (more…)

The Secrets of Sublime Storytelling, Part 1

I am a story. You are a story. The Earth is a story. The cosmos is a story. History is a story. Religion is a story. Science is a story. Sacred and profane, heaven and hell, fact and fiction, God and the devil — these are all stories.

We experience our lives and life in terms of the stories we tell — to ourselves and to each other. Whether our civilization and our species survive and thrive will be determined by the stories we tell. There is no escape. Stories create, define, sustain, and dissolve reality. This is an immutable law of human existence, one that transcends even the four fundamental forces of physics: gravity, electromagnetism, the weak force, and the strong force.

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I’m a damn good storyteller, according to the consensus opinion of those who have listened to my stories over the years. I’m a professional storyteller; that is, I have made my living telling purposeful stories, even if under the labels of spiritual teacher and activist, leadership consultant, executive advisor, life coach, workshop leader, public speaker and speaking guru. For years, my tag line was, Have Mouth, Will Travel. It still is. (more…)