Posts Tagged ‘language’

We speak the same language, but then again we don’t!

I’ve been working with three clients on creating presentations, one for a workshop and two for conferences. In each case, they presumed that their audiences would have the same understanding, the same reference points, the same backstory of certain key words and ideas as they, the speaker, would have. I always challenge that. Just because we speak the same language does not mean that we speak the same language, if you know what I mean.

Each of my clients is an expert in her field, with decades of study, learning, writing, teaching, and speaking in her area of expertise. So, when a key word or phrase or concept is put forward, she, the speaker, has decades of precise and practical meaning associated with each thing. The presumption is that everyone does. Everyone does not.

We’ve got to take great care to define and illustrate key words and ideas in our presentations, and not just in terms that only we will understand, but that our audience will understand. In many cases, we need a decoder ring, in order to be able to communicate important key words and ideas in a manner that the audience can understand and relate to, easily.

Here’s a pretty hysterical video which pits an Italian man against someone from Malta. Though Italian and Maltese are similar, the characters in the film are speaking English, albeit with accents. They are speaking the same language, but they do not understand each other. Accents aside, is this not too often the case in our own lives?

If you’ve got a presentation coming up, be sure your audience will understand you. If you’re not sure, get in touch with me and I’ll help you out. It’s very important.

Enjoy the video, which is R-rated and not politically correct. Thanks to my friend Amara from Perth for turning me on to this one.

INTERVIEW: Sound Bites from Silence — #2

This is another segment in an ongoing series of conversations between author and teacher Nurit Oren and myself, about my book Sound Bites from Silence.

“I am so deeply moved to hear such a non-answer to a question that cannot be answered and yet it is the best explanation to why it can’t be answered. Even these words don’t do it justice since this is the deepest elaboration in words that I ever heard. Listening from the silence perspective of “no reference point” it is so touching and soulful (for lack of better words) that I am on the verge of tears.” – Gabor Harsanyi, spiritual initiator, master of silence

The Dark Night of the Soul Isn’t So Dark-HD from Robert Rabbin on Vimeo.

Darshan with Bhagawan Nityananda

In 2003, I was walking along Stinson Beach, north of San Francisco. I was trying to figure out how to raise money for a project I wanted to launch. Suddenly, right there in broad daylight and on the sandy crescent of Stinson Beach, a tall nearly-naked Indian man appeared. I recognized him from pictures. He was called

Nityananda

Nityananda

Bhagawan Nityananda, and lived here on Earth up until 1961. He was a great and eccentric sage, the guru of my teacher. He stood in front of me and said, “You have reached a place in your sadhana (spiritual practice) where you no longer have to reach to get. You only have to open to receive.” Whoosh. Then he was gone.

Of course, the thoughtstream of my mind wanted to know: Receive what? How? From where? When? What about will, and intention, and effort? What about planning and strategies? Who’s sending the stuff I’m supposed to open to receive? What if it doesn’t come? What if it’s not what I want?

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